In a world where celebrity relationships are often fleeting, LL Cool J and his wife, Simone Smith, stand as a testament to lasting love. After nearly three decades of marriage, Simone recently opened up about the dedication, growth, and faith that have been essential to sustaining her relationship with one of hip-hop’s most iconic sex symbols. During a heartfelt conversation on the Banking on Cultura podcast, Simone offered a refreshingly honest perspective on the challenges of maintaining a solid foundation with LL Cool J, whose name famously stands for “Ladies Love Cool James.”
Being married to a global star came with its own set of pressures, but instead of allowing outside admiration to break their bond, Simone found her strength within. “I used to get upset when women looked at him a certain way, but that was years ago,” Simone admitted. Like many in long-term relationships, she faced moments of insecurity and jealousy. Yet, with time, she realized that her peace couldn’t depend on others. “The closer you get to God, the more you understand your purpose,” she shared, emphasizing the role faith played in her personal growth. Rather than focusing on the attention LL received, Simone shifted her perspective, understanding that the only person she could control was herself.
Of course, admiration from fans is one thing, but Simone remains firm on her boundaries regarding disrespect. “The disrespect, I can’t deal with. At 54, I’m ready to take off the hoops,” she joked, referencing the classic symbol of a woman gearing up to defend her respect. This mix of self-assurance and humor has undoubtedly played a part in their lasting partnership. Simone’s words highlight the importance of resilience and evolution in marriage. She and LL Cool J have grown alongside each other, navigating both triumphs and challenges with unwavering commitment.
